FAQs
If you're interested, respond with an enthusiastic “Yes, I'd love to” and ask for any follow-up details. If you aren't interested, be polite and straightforward when you decline. If you're not sure, tell them you need some time to think and you'll give them an answer within a few days.
How do you respond to a potential date? ›
If you're interested, respond with a clear "Yes," instead of a vague response. If there is a schedule conflict with the date, but you'd still like to accept, make sure to give them a specific alternative time when you'll be available.
What do you say when a date goes well? ›
Use phrases like:
- “I had such a wonderful time last night…”
- “Our date was the highlight of my week! ...
- “I felt a real connection with you…”
- “I genuinely enjoyed our time together…”
- “I'm excited about getting to know you better…”
- “I can't stop thinking about our date…”
- “I loved talking about ___ last night.”
First Date Tips
- Don't overcomplicate things. ...
- Don't stress unnecessarily. ...
- Cut down the texting, and meet in person. ...
- Prepare some first date topics. ...
- Boost your confidence. ...
- Up your listening game. ...
- Create a strong first impression. ...
- Be true to yourself.
Confirm at the Time You Make the Date
You could say, "Great...it's a date tomorrow at 7 at Aldo's then." or, "Cool. It's a date. Looking forward to it." Be sure you use the word date so there's no misunderstanding.
What is the reply time for dating? ›
1 Reply within 5 minutes when you're texting your crush. 2 Respond to a girl after 10-15 minutes to play it cool. 3 Answer within 1-3 hours to be polite.
How do you respond positively to a date? ›
You can accept and then ask details about the date, like “I'd love to go. Would you like to ride together or would you like for me to meet you there?” You can agree and then express enthusiasm, such as, “I've been wanting to go see that movie! Everyone's been telling me how awesome it is.”
How to respond to a disappointing text? ›
Check out these other examples:
- “I wish it had worked out, but thanks for your time!”
- “Ah that's tough to hear. But I really respect you for letting me know. Wishing you the best!”
- “Oh shoot, that's disappointing. I had a great time though, thank you!”
Examples of what to text after a first date:
I had fun tonight.” “I had a really nice time with you last night. We should do it again sometime.” “Had fun tonight!
How do you compliment a good date? ›
Remember, a question can be a compliment in itself if it shows you've listened and taken an interest.
- 'I love your laugh'
- 'You're really funny'
- 'It's so much fun spending time with you'
- 'You're easy to talk to'
- 'That's such an interesting job, how did you get into it?
After 3 weeks of constantly dating, talking to one another, it shouldn't take you guys no longer than 3 weeks. to figure out what there's actual potential. and there's actual chemistry. and there's actual future between the both of you. Lastly, 3 months.
How many dates before making love? ›
A second study in 2017 asked men and women specifically how many dates they usually waited before having a sexual experience with their partner. On average, men reported waiting about five dates, and women reported a preference of waiting closer to nine dates. Overall the average was about eight dates.
What is the 20 rule in dating? ›
“If you continually contact them to set up date nights, they'll let you do all the work… you need to give them the opportunity to invest in you,” Dr. Lurve explains. “Let the other person make the first move 80 percent of the time and you initiate the other 20 percent.
How do you respond to a dating message? ›
If someone has taken the time to email you and ask questions, it's important that you reply with the same care and consideration. Answer honestly, clearly and concisely and show that you're interested by asking them a few questions, too.
How to politely reject someone who asks you out? ›
“First, acknowledge their request,” she advises: “'That's flattering; thank you for asking me out. '” Next, give an unequivocal “no”—Harrison recommends something like, “However, I am not interested in going out.” Finally, finish with a gracious send-off that provides a sense of closure.
What do you reply when someone asks to meet? ›
When someone asks to meet you soon, it's always nice to respond with a sweet and positive message. Here are some sweet responses you can use: "I would absolutely love to meet you soon! Let's plan a date and make it memorable." [1]
